For a generation that values “tolerance” above all other virtues, no fact is more distressing than the Final Judgment. Through his Son Jesus Christ, God the Father will show himself intolerant of every thought, word, and deed that does not live up to the expectations of his righteousness. In the end, how to get through the Final Judgment will turn out to be life’s one, great, insurmountable problem. 
Christianity Today has done the church a big favor by publishing this article by Trevin Wax, a blogger from the camp of the “new Calvinists.” Take a moment to read it. I don’t think you will be disappointed.